Hi, this blog is for all the males here. as we sometimes forget the sacrifice your women has done for you.
I received a email today from one my dear friend. Her mail was touchy that some points in this email was directly pointed at me, I know I don't do it deliberately, but at times the we guys do over react and do what we are not supposed to do.
Here is the email, due credits to original author of this article, so here we go. read on and do appreciate HER.
The woman in your life...very well expressed......
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Or you already have one.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
One who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life.
One who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that-her home and people who love her- to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name.
One who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1 while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.
One who is expected to make tea first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a homemaker, a cook, a mother, a wife; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times like you and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burner to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
Nice article, and yes let us appreciate the things we often forget, from both sides, never take anything for granted, you never know what you have till its gone.
Very emotional blog, I agree with Aughty - we should appreciate each other, it works for all of us and more appreciation means, IMHO, better relationship. Let´s pray for it!
That works both ways. We are all in this together.